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Friday, December 05, 2008

Christmas Shopping for Your Wife


Most men do not enjoy Christmas shopping, or any kind of shopping at all. While they may generally dislike Christmas shopping, they especially do not like Christmas shopping for their wives. These men may love their wives dearly, but the thought of purchasing Christmas gifts for their wives seems like a daunting task. Their wives most likely have no idea that their husband deals with the stress associated with Christmas shopping for them each year. They likely assume they are easy to shop for and that it is a piece of cake to select a gift for them.

Most men attend a number of parties with their wives throughout the year. They may attend birthday parties for nieces and nephews, engagement parties for cousins or friends, and housewarming parties for friends. They also likely arrive at most of these occasions bearing gifts, however, in most cases it is the wife who does the gift shopping. Most women enjoy shopping and do not mind always tackling this task. However, the women cannot help their husbands when it comes to shopping for them at Christmas. These poor men have no practice shopping for presents and then they find themselves having to purchase Christmas presents for their wives without any help. Following are a few gift ideas your wife is sure to love.

A scrapbook is a great idea for a Christmas gift for your wife, especially if she is always complaining about never having time to organize the family photos. This idea may scare many men because they are afraid they have to be artistically talented to give their wife this type of gift. Fortunately for them, there are many individuals in the business of making scrapbooks. All the husband has to do is round up several photos and sit down with the scrapbooking consultant to discuss what type of book he is looking for and his wife’s favorite colors and preferences. With this information the consultant can create a lovely scrapbook from the pictures the husband provides.

A spa gift certificate is another excellent idea for men who find Christmas shopping to be difficult. Most women enjoy being pampered and receiving treatments such as manicures, pedicures, facials, massages, and other rejuvenating treatments. Even if you are not sure where she would like to go to receive these treatments you can purchase a gift certificate from a service which works in conjunction with a number of spas around the country.

Another gift many women will greatly appreciate is a gift certificate for a maid service. This is especially useful for women who work a full-time job and do the majority of the housework. It can be quite difficult to keep the house in great shape while working full-time. Giving a gift of maid service does not imply you do not think the house is clean enough, but rather sends the message that you realize how hard your wife works and that want to make her life easier. An even better idea is to make up a homemade coupon book with items such as cooking dinner or cleaning the bathroom. If your wife typically does these chores, she can cash in one of her coupons for a night off from this chore.

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Christmas Shopping for Your Husband


You might think that Christmas shopping for your husband would be the easiest part of your Christmas shopping each year. You might think this is going to be such an easy chore because you love your husband and you know him really well; but, in actuality, Christmas shopping for your husband is sometimes the most difficult part of the holiday season. This can happen for a number of reasons. First, you may feel added stress to find a perfect gift for your husband. While you may be willing to settle for gifts which are merely acceptable for other members on your Christmas list, you are likely to feel stressed to search for items which are spectacular for really close relatives such as your husband. If you have been married to your husband for a number of years, you may also have difficulty Christmas shopping for him because you may feel like you have already bought him everything.

Considering your husband’s interests and hobbies is one way to make Christmas shopping for him easier. Paying attention to these interests and hobbies can give you a better idea of what type of items would make great Christmas gifts for him. For example, if he recently started golfing and is still renting golf clubs, you could consider purchasing a golf bag for him and giving him a gift certificate to purchase a set of golf clubs to fill the bag. Or, if he recently started running, you might consider items which would make his run more enjoyable. You might purchase an MP3 player which is designed to be worn on an armband while running, or a speed and distance monitor which tracks his mileage and his pace throughout his workout.

Another useful tip for Christmas shopping for your husband is to not be afraid to repeat gifts you have given him the past. You might normally consider purchasing a bottle of cologne for him for Christmas and then decide against it because you realize you gave him a bottle of cologne for Christmas two years ago. This is very common because many people think it is boring to give the same gift more than once, but it is not always a bad idea. This is especially true in the case of items which can be used up, such as cologne, scented soaps, and candles. It makes sense to gives these gifts repeatedly because your husband uses them often and runs out each year. However, even items such as clothing can be given as repeat gifts. It is acceptable to give your husband items such as ties, sweaters, or pants on more than one occasion because clothing goes out of style and your husband’s tastes may change. The tie which he loved a couple of years ago may not be one of his favorites anymore. However, if you gave him a trendy new tie for Christmas this year it is likely to be a gift which is much appreciated.

Finally, if you simply cannot decide what to get your husband for Christmas, it is acceptable to ask him what he wants. Have him make a list of several items he wants and plan on purchasing a few items from the list as well as a few surprises.

Monday, December 01, 2008

Christmas Shopping for Children


Christmas is a truly magical season that is enjoyed by many, but no one enjoys the Christmas season more than kids. It might be the prospect of some well deserved time off from school, the allure of the lights and decorations, the beauty of the snow that often accompanies Christmas, or just the anticipation of Santa and his sleigh filled with toys that is so exciting for children. Whatever the reason, most kids are truly enchanted by Christmas and most adults truly enjoy shopping for kids at Christmas time.

While Christmas shopping for kids is a great deal of fun, there are some factors to consider when Christmas shopping for kids. A few of the specific concerns include selecting age-appropriate toys, selecting toys which are not too noisy or too big for the child’s living situation, selecting toys the child does not already have, selecting toys which the parents consider to be acceptable, and selecting toys the child will enjoy. This can make Christmas shopping for kids a little more difficult but does not have to make the shopping any less fun.

Selecting age-appropriate toys is very important when Christmas shopping for kids. This is important for a couple of reasons. First, it is important because toys which are designed for older children might be potentially dangerous for a younger child. For example, toys which are designed for children over the age of three may contain small pieces which pose a choking hazard to small children. Children under the age of three may often put toys and other objects in their mouths, so they must receive toys which contain only pieces large enough to not be a choking hazard. Also, toys which are designed for an older child may not be as much fun for the child as they would be for children of the appropriate age. If the child is too young for the toy, they may become easily frustrated because they cannot use the toy properly. On the other hand, a child who is too old for a particular toy may quickly become bored with the toy.

When shopping for Christmas gifts for a child, it is also important to consider the child’s parents and their living situation. This includes the size of the living area and the proximity to neighbors. Specifically, toys which are particularly noisy may not be appropriate for a child who lives in an apartment building with other apartment units nearby. Also, large toys such as a trampoline may not be appropriate for a child who does not have a yard large enough to accommodate such a gift. Similarly, large indoor items, such as a foosball table, would not be appropriate for a child who does not have a dedicated toy room to accommodate such a large item. As a general rule, it is best to stick with small items which do not make a great deal of noise when Christmas shopping for kids.

It is also important to consider the personal beliefs of the parents when shopping for Christmas gifts for their children. You should not purchase an item for a child if you know their parents are ethically opposed to such an item. Guns and violent video games are a couple of obvious example of Christmas gifts which may offend parents. There are many parents who do not allow their children to play with these items because they believe they promote violence. If you are not sure about the feelings of the parents, it is best not to select these items.

When Christmas shopping for a child, it is wise to consult the parents beforehand. Parents can give some insight into the child’s hobbies and interests which may make selecting a gift easier. They may even suggest a specific item from the child’s Christmas list ensuring you are giving the child something he really wants for Christmas. Consulting the parents can also prevent you from giving the child a gift he already has. Try calling the parents before you make a purchase to suggest a particular item. They can let you know if they think the child will enjoy the item or if the child already has the item.